When Your Boyfriend Disappears

When your boyfriend disappears it might have two aspects just as the two sides of a coin. It may be quite positive and healthy for your relationship and may affect completely different and end up the relation. Every relation has ups and down, which can harm the relation or strengthen the relation. Your boyfriend may feel suffocated and trapped in the relation but doesn’t able to find reason to do break up and disappearing suits him best at the situation. Sometimes losing your boyfriend can be good as it has been said that“absence does make the heart fonder” by which you can bring passion and desire for each other after the gap.

Some things to do when your boyfriend disappears which can help you to calm down at such situation and give you strength to think positive and make good decisions for your relation.

Things to do when your boyfriend disappears

Don’t Jump to Conclusions
Don’t board your mind to some conclusion and be calm and coherent with your thoughts. He wants to have some space and think for both of you and your relation. You might be too demanding and possessive for him which was hard to digest for him. Just think positive and wait for his come back to settle out the things. Be empathetic and have understanding for him.

Ask Subtle Questions
Don’t annoy him by asking lot of questions and imposing your negative thoughts on him. Be positive and be subtle in asking about his mind and decision. Talk to his friends and colleagues to judge his mood and thinking about your condition. It will be best to have some patience and wait for his words to tell you the truth.

Be Patient and don’t Lose Hope
The more you think about him will give you negative thoughts and make you crazy with the delusions of breakup. When your boyfriend disappears for no reason has a bad impact on your mind but it may get you some surprise or a reason to strengthen your relation with him. Just be in your past and think all the positive things and be patient and don’t lose hope.

See if he tells you the Truth and then Act
When your boyfriend gets back to you after a time gap, then just waits and listens to his explanation first. Don’t be so impatient and respond in angry manner. After listening all the truth from his mouth, gauge whether he is saying truth or not and then take the final decision about your relation.

Be Cool and Distant with him
Return him what he deserves and has done to you. If he is bother enough to tell you before leaving then show him the same attitude and be distant to him. Let him realize that you are upset and angry with him by the gestures and you can also do the same to him.

Let him know that there should be no Secrets
Tell him that you are mature enough to understand the situations and his feelings. If he is required to take a break from daily routine then you are supportive to him and ready to give him full space. He just needs to be honest with you and be specified about his thinking and such thoughts about the relation and you. If you find him depress and upset on something, be calm and show your all love and support for everything as a true partner of love.